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Jab Aaina Jhooth Bolta Hai

  • Writer: Parita Sharma
    Parita Sharma
  • 14 minutes ago
  • 2 min read

“Man will only become better when you make him see what he likes to see.”— Anton Chekhov

Jab Reflection Ban Jaata Hai Manipulation

Narcissist log is line ko apne fayde ke liye jeete hain. Unke liye reflection ka matlab hota hai control. Woh tumhe wahi dikhate hain jo tumhe dekhna accha lagta hai - compliments, charm, intense pyaar - sab ek mirror game hoti hai.

Par dheere-dheere tum apna reflection kho dete ho. Tum apni value unke reaction se naapne lagte ho. Aur jab tum finally us game se bahar nikalte ho - jab tum unki narrative ko todte ho - tab tum villain ban jaate ho.

Par sach toh yeh hai: jab mirror toot ta hai, tab healing shuru hoti hai.

“Man will only become better when you make him see what he likes to see.”— Anton Chekhov

The Narcissistic Personality: Ek Khoobsurat Trap

Narcissist har baar loud nahi hote. Kabhi-kabhi woh soft bolte hain, samajhdaar lagte hain, ya spiritual disguise mein hote hain. Unka power chhupaa hota hai guilt aur gaslighting ke beech.

Tum jitna samjhane jaate ho, woh utna twist karte hain.Tum jitna dene lagte ho, woh utna lete hain. Aur phir keh dete hain - “Tum badal gaye ho.”

Chekhov ki line yahan fit baithti hai — woh tabhi “better” lagte hain jab duniya unka illusion reflect karti hai. Par asli irony yeh hai — woh kabhi apna asli chehra dekhte hi nahi.


Healing Beyond the Narcissist

Agar tum kabhi aise rishte se nikle ho — chahe partner, parent, ya boss ke saath - toh yaad rakho: tumhaari haar nahi hui, tum jaage ho. Jo tumse apni image banwaata tha, usse nikal kar tumne apni asli identity wapas paayi hai.

Healing tab shuru hoti hai jab tum apni peace ko protect karna seekhte ho, prove karna nahi.


SEVEE: Write Your Own Story

SEVEE mein hum un logo ke saath chalte hain jinhone emotional manipulation face kiya hai — chahe narcissistic relationship ho, ya self-doubt ka phase.Hamare therapist tumhe labels nahi dete, clarity dete hain.Woh jagah jahan tum apni kahani likh pao — bina mask, bina mirror.

Tumhara reflection tumhara apna ho sakta hai — aur wahi sabse khoobsurat hota hai.


What'sapp +919712777330 for in person therapy with Parita in Ahmedabad.

Join us https://www.sevee.care/membership-plans for online sessions.



 
 
 

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